Jess O’Hayer | Raise Thinkers

Jess O’Hayer | Raise Thinkers

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👦🏽 Parent Educator for 15+ years 🧑‍🧑‍🧒‍🧒 4 high achieving boys • ADHD ✏️ Creator of The Green Pencil Club 📺 Subscribe• Free Parenting Resources

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Here is everything I’ve learned about raising boys and it was a struggle to get it all into 90 seconds, but I did it! 🫠 What have you learned about raising boys that I should add to my list next time? 06 Oct 2026 Having boys with ADHD is tough for teachers, parents, and especially THE BOYS. I’d be happy to share how we have helped my boys. 31 Aug 2026 Disclaimer: This is not a measure of how good or bad of a parent you are or your child is. This is meant to be a way to check to see if there is a main area you can work on, as a parent, to reduce your work load in the future. These are things that we can get better at over time. Kids are resilient. Let me know if there is something in particular you are wanting more videos on. ❤️ 22 Sep 2026 What people think I do: referee fighting boys. What I actually do: talk about feelings, practice asking for what we need, and give a lot of hugs. 10 Nov 2026 I have to tell y’all how getting my kids organized is going. I’m SHOOK. The kids are so much more capable than I realized. They can clean up after themselves, y’all!!! It wasn’t even that hard!! 08 Nov 2026 HOW ON EARTH!? 🙋🏼‍♀️Pick me! I have ideas! We can do it, y’all!! Follow for more ideas. Unpopular opinion from 15 years of parenting boys: turn off the screens. Nothing in your kid’s life will ever be as interesting as a screen. Take screens away, and suddenly your boys have a reason to: ✔️ get along ✔️ play together ✔️ be curious ✔️ learn new skills ✔️ do chores ✔️ get good grades ✔️ feel proud of a clean room Screens rob them of the joy of real life. Follow to see how I stay sane with 4 boys with ADHD and zero screens. Could your family go one week with no screens? Be honest 👇 #screenfree #screentime #adhdparenting #adhdkids momofboys boymom unpopularopinion raisingboys intentionalparenting parentingtips 06 Nov 2026 No nagging. I don’t want to be that mom and it hurts my influence over them. So, time to let them make choices and deal with the natural consequences. The way that feels fair to me is to give them an idea of what the OPTIONS are, without adding emotional weight. Using the phrase This is what I like to do because… Or You could do this or you could do this. And then let them choose. The most important part is to not mention it again unless you are saying something positive. “I’m glad you brought a hat so you don’t get sunburned” Natural consequences don’t work if they are rebelling against you. 11 Oct 2026 Your morning routine for kids with ADHD can be SO hard. So much to do, so little time, and everyone is tired and cranky. This hack has made our lives so much easier. PUT THINGS IN ORDER THAT THEY DO THEM, throughout the house. So they move from station to station instead of having to be in one spot and remember 5 things to do and stay on task. Have you tried this? 03 Sep 2026 Why do some kids listen the first time while others seem to ignore every request? If you’re dealing with constant arguing, repeated reminders, or a child who won’t stop when you say “stop,” start with these three foundations: consistent follow-through, a strong parent-child connection, and helping your child understand why the rule matters. I’m a mom of four boys with ADHD, and these are the things I come back to when I’m working on listening skills, cooperation, and less nagging at home. They’re skills we build together—not a test of whether you’re a good parent. Which of the three is hardest in your house right now? 14 Sep 2026 How do you help siblings stop fighting and build a strong sibling bond? When my boys have a disagreement, I don’t stop at “say you’re sorry.” I teach them how to repair their relationship, take responsibility, understand each other’s feelings, and reconnect. Sibling conflict is going to happen—but it can become an opportunity to teach children healthy conflict resolution, empathy, communication, and relationship skills that will serve them for life. If you’re raising toddlers, preschoolers, or elementary-age children, follow for practical parenting tips on sibling rivalry, emotional regulation, raising boys, and helping young children build strong relationships. What causes the most sibling fighting in your home? #ParentingTips #SiblingRivalry #SiblingBond #RaisingBoys #ParentingYoungChildren 16 Sep 2026 This has power to change their behavior probably more than anything other single change. Find slivers of the behavior you want more of and praise them for it. Examples: - You are sitting so still like a carrot! (Yes, above used this one and it was very effective 🤣) - That spot looks so clean!! Now see if you can do this spot. - Thank you for using your nice words! - You remembered to put the trash bag in!!! Awesome! - Great job getting that down so fast!! - Did you make this all by yourself!? So cool! Before I start any discipline or anything else, I double down on recognizing what they are doing well. 12 Oct 2026 I swear by the Lasagna Method. I invented this framework 10 years ago, but I would be shocked if it doesn’t already exist. It’s perfect for ADHD kids who have a hard time with long-term gratification.. 04 Sep 2026

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