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Big Talk: Skip small talk, make meaningful connections. Sharing stories across humanity. By @kalinasilverman. Videos, Events, Book (Order Below!)
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A Big Talk Book!!! 💛
Hi friends! Over 10 years ago, I skipped small talk to ask strangers: “What do you want to do before you die?” Big Talk grew into a movement — and now a book “Big Talk: How to Skip Small Talk, Make More Meaningful Connections, and Enrich Your Life!” which will be released by @tarcher_books an imprint of @penguinrandomhouse on February 24th, 2026. You can preorder the Big Talk Book today by clicking the link in my bio! Thanks for your support! 😊
This book is for everyone — for friends, family, coworkers, students, employees, community members, and yourself. It’s for anyone who’s ever wanted to deepen connections and have the kinds of conversations you see here on @makebigtalk . I hope it helps you strengthen your relationships, make new friends, and find a little more purpose and humanity in everyday life.
Thank you to all of you who’ve supported Big Talk and believed in these conversations from the beginning. If you’ve ever wanted to support my work — or bring more depth into your own life and relationships — please consider preordering the Big Talk Book today!
And thank you to @hospicenursejulie for introducing me to my amazing agent, @trinityjmcfadden ,my editor, @lbappleton at @tarcher_books and the incredible team at @penguinrandomhouse
Author headshot by @brielakin
#Book #MakeBigTalk #BigTalk #Tarcher #PenguinRandomHouse #KalinaSilverman
15 Oct 2025
Today marks the 9-year anniversary of Big Talk! 😊🎉 It all began with this YouTube video I made one summer, where I walked up to complete strangers and invited them to answer the question, “What do you want to do before you die?” (Big Talk…Before I Die on YouTube).
Through this video, I hoped to show that no one needs to feel lonely. Instead, you can approach someone and start a conversation with a question that “skips the small talk” to nurture a deeper human connection.
Just one question has the power to transform your life - it certainly transformed mine! Big Talk went on to become a sort of grassroots global movement after I was invited to give a TEDx talk that generated over 6.5 million views on YouTube. Soon people all over the world were sharing their stories about how asking Big Talk questions helped them to repair and deepen their relationships, overcome mental health struggles, find purpose at work, or even fall in love.
I have since led Big Talk workshops for thousands of people all over the world. Just this morning, 125 Fulbrighters from over 65 different countries (Mozambique, Sierra Leone, Pakistan, Mexico - to name a few) participated in Big Talk. Two months ago, I traveled to New Hampshire to film Big Talk conversations for their statewide mental health campaign. A few days ago, a rising pop star used the Big Talk question card game at a dinner with his closest fans in Los Angeles. A U.S. senator has used Big Talk with his staff, as well as teachers at Harvard Medical School, and employees of Fortune 500 companies. Big Talk has truly been a passport to getting to know people from all walks of life from all over the world.
Thank you to everyone who has supported and believed in Big Talk throughout these years. There have always been challenges and bumps along the road, but I am so grateful that what began as a passion project has evolved into a deeply fulfilling career!
You can learn more at makebigtalk.com ☺️
15 Sep 2023
Walt, 83, lost his home in the Altadena (Eaton) fire yesterday. For decades he has been helping kids, seniors, and people experiencing homelessness in his own community. Today we made Big Talk to help him share his story. I hope we can give back to him and help Walt in this devastating time for him. ❤️ Walt Butler’s GoFundMe linked in my bio. Along with the general GoFundMe wildfire fund. Thank you for your support.
#eatonfire #altadena #fire #makebigtalk #bigtalk #help #gofundme #kindness #palisadesfire #lafire #lafires
09 Jan 2025
🏆 Direct Relief is a four-time winner at the 2026 Anthem Awards! @anthemawards
A collaborative video project with GoFundMe @gofundme, Kalina Silverman @kalinasilverman of @makebigtalk, and Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Coalition of Hawaiʻi @hmhbhawaii received three Silver Awards and one Bronze Award across four categories: Creator Collaboration, Short-Form Video, Disaster Relief & Emergency Response, and Branded Content or Collaboration.
Created in the wake of the devastating floods in Hawaiʻi, the video features Aunty Blanche of Hui Mahiʻai ʻĀina @huimahiaiaina, who leads a community in Waimānalo supporting more than 100 formerly unhoused Hawaiians. Her story highlights the resilience of communities recovering from disaster and the importance of continued support long after the headlines fade.
We're grateful to Aunty Blanche for sharing her story and to all our collaborators for helping bring it to life. 🧡
#AnthemAwards
(Photos by Megan Batson @megbatphoto for Direct Relief)
05 Nov 2026
Yuri cured his own depression after losing his mom by dressing as a superhero and helping people in need in all 50 states! “This Christmas I plan on visiting one senior in every state to uplift them.” Thank you @afuturesuperhero for making Big Talk! I have linked Yuri’s @gofundme in my bio. Thank you for your support! ❤️
P.S. when that bee 🐝 flew into the camera right after Yuri mentioned him seeing bees as a spiritual sign from his mom, I had goosebumps all over! 🥹🩵
31 Oct 2026
EXCITING NEWS! We are @anthemawards finalists!! 🤩🩵👏🏽 A coordinated effort between @directrelief x @makebigtalk x @gofundme x @hmhbhawaii for our storytelling during the Hawaii floods featuring @huimahiaiaina 🌺
VOTE HERE: https://wbby.co/hucmnp
Mahalo Aunty Blanche for showing us the way: “If you want a homeless shelter, you need to have a garden.” 🌱❤️
We are proud to be finalists in a total of four categories!
* Short-Form Video – Content & Media, Humanitarian Action & Services
* Disaster Relief & Emergency Response – Industry Specific Program, Humanitarian Action & Services:
* Branded Content or Collaboration – Content & Media, Humanitarian Action & Services
* Creator Collaboration – Content & Media, Humanitarian Action & Services
28 Oct 2026
“The love story of my life is caring for a child with special needs.” Izaiah’s doctors said his life expectancy was 4 years. Today he is 5 years old! Izaiah I hope you get to see Hawaii and Alaska one day soon! Izaiahs @gofundme is linked in my bio. Thank you for your support. ❤️
12 Oct 2026
“You were so easy to love” @hospicenursejulie always blows me away every time we @makebigtalk reminding me not only how we should die, but also how we should live. 🩵
14 Sep 2026
While visiting China, I was inspired watching older people in the park every morning - not just working out - but moving their bodies through communal cultural activities like dancing, martial arts, and playing instruments. I met Mr. Zhang, a retired English teacher who shows up at Jing’an park in Shanghai every morning at sunrise to play the bamboo flute.
I would love to feature more people around the world and their inspiring morning routines! Let me know if you all have any ideas!
#elderly #wisdom #retirement #lifegoals
26 Oct 2026
I met Ashley at an event and was so inspired by her journey in life to make a career pivot towards following her dreams of studying animals in the wild and helping to advocate for the environment. 🦧 🦒 It was an honor to @makebigtalk with @ash4sm ❤️
02 Nov 2026
Yesterday I led a Big Talk icebreaker at Richard J. Donovan Correctional Facility as part of their Mental Health Day, co-organized by the men inside including @free_freddie_hernandez @justice4stone , @mcbroderick, @lisa_erspamer and @theofficialbrettmaypage of the Life without Parole Foundation.
I passed out Big Talk Question Cards and invited everyone to get into groups and skip the small talk.
One man answered, “What do you do when nobody is watching?” with: “You know how when you peel an onion you cry? Well I like to go into my prison cell and peel back the layers of me and have a good cry.”
Another answered, “What are the little things that bring you joy?” with: “When I walk outside to face the west and watch the sunset each day.”
After the exercise, two men approached me in tears and told me the Big Talk cards were the best gift they’d ever been given. One of them will be free in 30 days and told me he plans to use the cards with his family.
I then asked the men to write down their own Big Talk questions—the questions they wish they could ask or be asked. I’ve shared some of them in this video.
After 12 years of working on Big Talk, this was one of the most impactful and powerful experiences I’ve ever had.
Thank you to the men for your openness, vulnerability, and perspective. I’m grateful I got to share this space with you.
20 Aug 2026
It was an honor to @makebigtalk with @andersoncooper ❤️
19 May 2026
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