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There’s friction between you & the Leader you’re meant to Be in your business. I melt it so you can access speed, capacity and conviction to SCALE 🔥
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1000 posts. 140 days. Fuck it. Burn the boats. Let the experiment begin 🤪
I know it’s what I must do now because the idea came in so soft, quietly and almost random. No emotion behind it. Just a knowing “this is next”. That’s intuition.
After letting myself sit with the thought, honestly it started scaring TF out of me which is exactly why I must do it and why I’m saying it publicly. I’ve melted a lot of the internal resistance around it so now it’s time to just move ⚡️ cuz now that the fear has gotten way smaller, it feels like a lot of joy and fun!
Here’s the business strategy: Have fun. Continue to deepen into my rewiring process, demonstrating how you can do hard things with way more lightness when your subconscious is onboard. Trust my level of understanding sales psychology. Play the game of this experiment. The win is to keep my word to myself. That’s it. The strategy is to follow my inspired pulls.. make sure my subconscious is wired for my target (important) and trust the actions it pulls me into because I intentionally rewired it. My strategy is… soul speed. ⚡️God expression 😝
There’s no way I’d even be thinking of doing this right now if it weren’t for the subconscious rewiring I’ve already done over the last 6 months. (*cough* like finding a hidden subconscious pattern recently around apology for my ambition whew!) 👀
I genuinely believe in you not overthinking your enoughness.
This is about seeing what would happen if I just allowed God to fully express through me without apology, without restriction, without more strategy, without needing it to make sense…. Just straight up Soul Speed™
I wanna show myself that I can do this with lightness, joy and harmony in other areas of my life because of my subconscious change process. I wanna show you what’s possible for you. Just movement and acceleration ❤️🔥 LETS GO.
Would you do something like this?
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14 Aug 2026
Your brain is wired to answer ONE question at all times…
“Is. This. Safe. For me?”
Most business owners want high-performance and speed yet they skip making their brains answer “yes” to that question. This creates your subconscious mind actively working *against* you creating what you want because you didn’t make it agree with where you’re going next.
GIRL, no wonder you’re tired with brain fog & feeling like you’re on overdrive. No wonder you achieve big and then worry if you can sustain it. Your mind & body are literally running in opposite directions.
As a reminder, your subconscious is the autopilot part of you that’s 100x stronger than your willpower or discipline.
This is why so many high-growth entrepreneurs can only achieve with constant heaviness, pressure or burnout as their creation strategy.
Achievement only feels like a constant grind because you’re literally grinding against outdated subconscious conflict.
And the truth is?
Most entrepreneurs don’t know how to CLEAR it.
You probably didn’t even realize that was an option…
And yet this is exactly what we do in The Private Calibration.
We get your brain & body in agreement with what you’ve declared to create next so you feel lighter, move faster and scale naturally with enjoyment⚡️
You haven’t tasted your capacity like this before.
You haven’t felt this level of ease in a long time...
DM me “VIP” to apply or learn more.
18 May 2026
Most people underestimate the power of root awareness, and that’s why heaviness or “self-sabotage” keeps coming back.
What you’re aware of no longer has power over you.
This is why in 45 days, my client went from 3 years of hesitation to booked clients + chats to become the go-to athletic coach in several states of the Pacific Northwest.
If you wanna uncover and rewire the biggest gaps in your mindset right now blocking you from scaling with more freedom and lightness…
Let’s chat.
#mindsetcoachforentrepreneurs #mindsetcoachingforwomen #womeninbusinessrock #leadershift
24 Mar 2026
Unfortunately the cost of waiting longer to address the subconscious shit is that you *will* have more to lose.
It’s kinda like the shadow side of being such a winner.
DM me “melt friction” to chat.
12 Nov 2026
Dreading opening up your Slack to see what clients are saying in there shouldn’t be your normal.
Feeling a pit of anxiety in your stomach hours leading up to your client calls shouldn’t be your normal.
Beating yourself up, replaying conversations in your head of all the things you said wrong when you were leading your calls, shouldn’t be your normal.
Wanting a bigger business but also slowing yourself down out of fear you won’t be able to handle the responsibility of it, shouldn’t be your normal.
Getting to the end of the night exhausted (not in a satisfied sort of way) and feeling sluggish throughout the next day no matter how many hours of sleep you get or how much coffee you drink…
SHOULDN’T BE NORMAL. 👏🏾
I know you’ve dealt with this for so long that you’ve almost started to accept it as “just what it takes to be successful”.
Don’t.
Because none of this is happening by accident.
There is a subconscious weight that’s driving your behavior right now on autopilot.
And if you’re like any of my other clients, it’s a weight that’s been driving you for at least the last 15 years.
You just haven’t had the tools to change it. Until now…
DM me “clear” to chat and watch how you experience your business + how you experience yourself as a Leader, naturally change✨
12 Nov 2026
You are a strategy whoreeeee. You always know exactly what TF to do which is why your business is successful today. You’re smart AF. Sharp. Disciplined. And have a work ethic that intimidates the average person.
If your next level in business was about spending more time on calls with your business strategist, you’d already be at $1M.
Deep down you know that the actual slow down is energetic.
The next level game you’re playing is about how much permission you’re giving yourself to be yourself and trusting that it’s enough.
(This is currently missing which is why you’re spending hours building out resources and adding extra calls for clients. You’re not overdelivering. You’re over-giving and this pattern of exhaustion will keep repeating until we find out why your subconscious keeps creating it).
The next level game you’re playing right now is increasing your subconscious capacity to feel safe to be paid for exactly who you are, and fully owning the value you bring to the world without second-guessing or needing to “prove” it.
(^ this is currently missing which is why you’re having mini panic attacks in between client calls and you say your clients feel so heavy)
You’re making more money in your business than you ever have and yet you can still feel there’s a part of yourself holding back.
This is happening because you have subconscious anchors actively keeping you locked into an old conditioned identity that’s misaligned with what God showed you is next for you in business.
You’ve graduated from just hustle with strategy.
Holding MORE clients, visibility and impact is about how BIG of You your subconscious mind registers as safe for you to Be.
DM me “melt friction” to increase this capacity on purpose now because the new era of business is here...
You’re either bringing your soul’s unique signature in or about to get outshined by leaders brave enough to do it first.
11 Nov 2026
You can post more. Be on all the strategy calls with your mentor.
And your success will keep feeling like a fluke. It’ll always feel like pressure. And like there’s a weight of massive responsibility you’re about collapse beneath any day now.
^ THIS has killed more businesses in 2026 than “not having the strategy” and if you’re being real… it has made you second-guess yourself too.
And it’s all coming from your subconscious identity. Aka the biggest threat to your business because it determines how much success you let yourself receive and actually hold.
Your strategist gave you the best roadmap to have more clients yet still you’re keeping offers alive that you’ve outgrown and you’ve been delaying launching the new one at the higher price point for MONTHS now because of your subconscious identity. That’s costed you $100K minimum so far and th number increases every day you delay.
Your strategist told you to post 3x/day to experiment with getting more visible and your mind immediately turned up the volume on reasons why you can’t do that, you turn on your camera and your mind goes blank or it takes you HOURS to create content because your subconscious identity gets in the way. You’ve been “having grace with yourself” about it for the last 6 months. There’s at least 12 high-ticket clients who didn’t find you this year because of it.
I’m doing this 1,000 post experiment right now and can literally bust out 5 reels in less than 10 minutes. Why? It’s not because I’m special. It’s because I’ve mastered melting friction on the subconscious level. I literally turn on capacity as easily as turning on a faucet of water to wash my hands.
Now 6/7-figure industry leaders remember my name because of it. They’ve been inspired and impressed to raise their own standards because of my leadership. And have even told their own clients about me.
^ that’s not something that strategy could’ve ever made happen. That had everything to do with the subconscious identity I installed and melting friction ON PURPOSE.
Something tells me you’re ready to do the same. DM me “melt friction” to get out the waiting room.
11 Nov 2026
I wasn’t thinking “how am I gonna get invited to a celebrity’s house and network with producers of the biggest movie of the summer?”
THE FUCK 😂 no.
I didn’t try for it. I was Being it.
I received a vision. Didn’t try to understand the vision. Committed to being the Vessel for God to express through and the vision MET ME where I stood.
There was no friction for my mind to grind against.
Working hard didn’t feel like working hard at all.
It felt natural.
Like oxygen in my lungs.
God already revealed to you what this next version of your business needs to look like.
But right now you feel like you need to earn it, to prove your worthy of it…
You can literally feel the friction of your body bracing at the thought of what getting ✨there ✨ is going to TAKE from you.
Which is exactly what will keep it away. 🚨
Melting internal friction is such a gift of mine that back then I did it unconsciously.
Lucky for you, today?
I know how to cause it for you ON PURPOSE.
If you’re in chasing mode right now and you’re getting exhausted by it, that’s a signal that the gap between you and the vision is getting wider.
DM me “melt friction” to close that gap so you can not only feel lighter, but have the vision speed up to meet you. ⚡️
11 Nov 2026
And yet…
You still over-give to stay in “control” even though it exhausts you. Because you’re still afraid that you can’t deliver results for your clients to the point where it almost feels like a fluke anytime someone says yes to work with you…
Your biz strategist “helps you with your mind a bit” and yet…
In between client calls, you’re having mini panic attacks you’ve never had in your adult life because every call feels like you have to perform being the expert and like you’re one sentence away from saying the wrong thing and everyone asking for a refund…
Your biz strategist “helps you with your mind a bit” and yet still…
When clients vent about having a hard time, you beat yourself up and immediately make yourself personally responsible. The guilt you feel makes you start people-pleasing them and you always get the ick at yourself on the other side cuz “WTF this is not leader behavior” but that autopilot response has got you in a chokehold…
All of this?
Makes your business feel really fucking heavy. Which is exactly why everytime you’re in massive momentum, on the cusp of your next high cash month… you’ve noticed that you unconsciously pull back and get in your own way.
I know you got your journaling routine. You meditate. You’re self-reliant and familiar with human behavior
Which is actually why you already know why this pattern of heaviness and income cap keeps happening.
It’s the same thing you’d tell your own clients…
You can’t see your own blind spots.
And sacrificing your standard on the actual thing that makes or breaks your speed + success (your MIND)… is a set up for disappointment.
When you’re done with that, let’s chat.
10 Nov 2026
Immerse yourself in the insanity of being obsessed with bringing forth the vision of impact that God put on your heart.
There is nothing wrong with you.
You’re not too intense.
You were built perfectly to fulfill a plan that’s much bigger than you and me.
And for someone like you?
A leader who values excellence…
You will feel way more pressure when you try to hold that force back.
It’s kind of like a built in mechanism to make sure that you do exactly what your Soul was sent here for or the pent up energy will just give you crippling anxiety hahah 😅
Seriously though… I exist to support you, Crazy One.
I know all too well what it’s like to feel frustration knowing you are still only accessing a *fraction* of your potential when your mind starts to get in your way.
Showing you how to melt that internal friction is my entire life’s purpose.
Welcome home 🫶🏽
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10 Nov 2026
You KNOW you’re the shit 🔥 you have a trail of personal wins, client testimonials and extraordinary things you’ve accomplished.
But here’s the truth?
Your Soul is calling you to step into completely unfamiliar territory now. You’re being called to deepen into your boldness, conviction and being unapologetic about exactly Who TF you are and the value you bring to the world.
You know you need to be really fucking VISIBLE about it. But the little girl inside of you is getting real fricking loud and you don’t know exactly why but she’s slowing you down.
DM me “melt friction” to not only uncover the accurate root of your resistance but to finally CLEAR it ⚡️
So when you think of pitching yourself to more podcasts and creating more talking heads with conviction… you don’t suddenly get the urge to do all of your laundry or wash your dishes…
Instead your immediate impulse is to pick up your camera and record yourself speaking. Your creative channel is so open that you cannot help but to make the person on the other side of the screen FEEL something. So when that person whose podcast you pitched yourself for comes to stalk your page… they immediately think “oh, this woman is a fucking leader my audience is gonna love. I need to email her back right now” (instead of ghosting your request).
You don’t have a fear of being seen.
That’s just the surface symptom you’ve been able to articulate.
You can keep doing the breathwork, EFT and meditating working on the wrong identity constraint… or you can just hire me. lol then watch how much lighter + convicted you feel and how much faster you go ⚡️
09 Nov 2026
You technically raised your rate and yet in a sales conversation you still immediately drop it before your potential client even gives you an objection…
That is what happens but you’re not wired for the conviction or capacity to hold it.
Your relationship to how you perceive yourself receiving money needs an upgrade so you don’t feel guilty receiving and sabotage the scale you say you’re ready for.
DM me “malt friction” to make it happen
09 Nov 2026
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