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Here is the conference designed for everyone to learn the colonial history they were never taught, and how to reclaim their power through decolonization.
Colonialism touches every single person in the world. Whether you are a settler or descend from those colonized, you have been shaped by the legacy of European colonization. Yet, this history is rarely taught, especially in the West. We created this conference to be accessible but deeply thorough, giving you the tools to understand both the massive breadth and the hidden specifics of colonialism.
We are gathering the world’s leading subject-matter experts. Our full lineup is dropping soon, but we are thrilled to announce:
🎙️ Joris Lechene
🎙️ Christian Ortiz
🎙️ Dr. Hilary Agro
🎟️ EARLY BIRD TICKETS: For the next 10 days, get a Full-Day Pass for $56 (regularly $74).
🤎 ACCESSIBILITY TICKETS: We have 30 community-priced tickets for $15, and 20 free tickets for global Indigenous folks. Email [email protected] to claim yours.
Comment “DECOLONIZE” below for the ticket link, or grab yours at the link in our bio!
#decolonizing #conference #speakers
19 Oct 2026
We recently surpassed our 200th client, an incredible milestone after just two years of offering polyamory coaching services. Many people reached out, unsure of where to find support, feeling isolated without a community of people with lived polyamory experience. Unfortunately, most therapists aren’t trained in polyamory and bring monogamous biases into sessions, leaving polyamorists feeling lonely and frustrated. We wanted to change that.
We started coaching because of our privilege in having a lifetime of polyamory experience, being part of polyamorous communities, and learning from top educators. Over the years, we've helped thousands through workshops and coaching, watching clients go from feeling isolated to feeling empowered and connected, no matter where they are.
Our services cater to all kinds of poly relationships, offering one-time consultations and ongoing coaching. We've seen many clients blossom over the years, growing stronger and more resilient.
Nick brings years of experience working in distress centers and coaching men on healthier masculinity, along with specialized training in coaching techniques. Millie, with a diverse background in social activism, organizing, and working with polyamorous communities globally, brings a unique and varied perspective. Together, we form a powerful coaching duo dedicated to helping polyamorous individuals and relationships thrive.
*No likenesses or specific cases were used in any examples; confidentiality is always respected in our coaching sessions.
📅 If you'd like to book a coaching session, feel free to check the link in our bio, or you can DM or email us for more information!
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23 Oct 2024
We were never looking to be influencers. Nick was building a career as a healthcare consultant, and Millie was focused on writing. Content creation simply evolved, and we’re grateful it’s allowed us to share our ideas and engage with the world in ways that resonate. Along the way, we found a calling to help others transform their perspectives on decoloniality and relationships—an honor we deeply value.
However, as our reach has grown, so has the level of unwarranted criticism and abuse, as if increased visibility somehow justifies it. This is one of the hazards of parasocial relationships. To continue doing this work sustainably and with integrity, we must protect our well-being and remain grounded in who we are beyond this platform. For this reason, we’re publicly posting our boundaries.
Boundaries mark where we begin and where others can respectfully engage with us. They honor each individual and create space for everyone to thrive. Often, those who struggle with or disregard boundaries have experienced boundary violations themselves, which can make it difficult to recognize or respect them in others. Porous boundaries can be harmful not only to the individual with them but also to those around them. If you find our boundaries challenging, consider whether this might be why. There are many resources available, including therapy and books on boundaries; we particularly recommend 'Set Boundaries, Find Peace' by Nedra Glover Tawwab.
If you find our slides on boundaries helpful, feel free to share them on your own social media. We hope everyone can find a sense of safety and self-respect through healthy boundaries.
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03 Nov 2024
Navigating polyamory doesn't have to be a solo mission. Wherever you are on your journey, I’m here to help you thrive.
Choose the support that fits your lifestyle:
- Want personalized guidance? Book a 1-on-1 coaching session to dive deep into communication and relationship dynamics.
- Prefer to learn at your own pace? Download my PolyCoach app for a self-guided learning series, it’s like having me right in your pocket!
Links in bio.
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07 Nov 2026
Anti intellectualism on the left is not just unbecoming; it is a self inflicted wound. True liberation requires a robust ecology of ideas, whereas the demand for ideological purity and a singular mindset is inherently colonial. Colonialism thrives on flattening nuance and demanding conformity.
In stark contrast, many Indigenous traditions have long understood that friction, questioning, and debate are vital to relationality. Unconventional ideas and dissenting voices are often exactly what chart the path out of a crisis.
Today, fear is driving a panicked retreat into dogmatic certainty. But we cannot afford to stop thinking critically. We desperately need spaces for rigorous, good faith exploration of how to break free from these rigid paradigms.
Fostering that exact kind of courageous dialogue is the driving force behind our next event: the Decolonizing Everything conference. 🌍
We are sitting with the world’s greatest decolonial thinkers:
🗣️ Prof. Lorenzo Veracini: What is colonialism?
🗣️ Joris Lechene: Decolonisation is not a metaphor... But Decoloniality can be
🗣️ Dr. Hilary Agro: Decolonizing Whiteness: Ancestral Reconnection
🗣️ Dr. Mordecai Ogada: Recolonization: Colonialism isn’t returning; It never went away
🗣️ Christian Ortiz: Decolonizing AI
🗣️ Dr. Stacey Patton: Decolonizing Parenting
🎟️ TICKETS
• Single session: $39
• Full day pass: $74
• Community pass: $15 (30 available)
• Free tickets for global Indigenous peoples (20 available)
🤎 PLUS: Full Conference Solidarity ticket holders ($110) get access to an exclusive follow up group session on Nov 29.
(Full day and solidarity tickets includes the recording so you can revisit the sessions anytime).
Do not just learn the history. Understand how it continues to shape the world we live in and what we can do about it.
👇 Comment DECOLONIZE for a direct DM link or head to the link in our bio!
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06 Nov 2026
When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said 'Let us pray.' We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land. — Desmond Tutu
You can't have colonization without a religion that is inherently disempowering of your agency. Indigenous belief systems are very different from colonial religions. In many Indigenous cultures, if there is a creator, they are removed from the daily things humans do after creation. There is also no concept of hell. But a god that is controlling and paternalistic, and a religion that dictates the earth was made for humans and that humans are better than the earth, creates a disconnected, entitled culture. This is what essentially led to the Anthropocene.
Missionaries went ahead of militaries for a reason. If you colonize the soul, you can easily colonize the land. That's why true decolonization means decolonizing away from the gods of colonizers, including the Abrahamic faiths.
🎥 Reel by @baniknik3
To go deeper into the systemic roots of colonization, we are hosting the Decolonizing Everything Conference. We are sitting with the world's greatest thinkers, including:
• Prof. Lorenzo Veracini on what is colonialism
• Joris Lechene: 'Decolonisation is not a metaphor... But Decoloniality can be'
• Dr. Hilary Agro: 'Decolonizing Whiteness: Ancestral Reconnection for the European Diaspora'
• Mordecai Ogada: 'Recolonization: Colonialism isn't returning; It never went away'
• Christian Ortiz: Decolonizing AI
• Dr. Stacey Patton: Decolonizing Parenting
🎟️ TICKETS
• Single session: $39
• Full day pass: $74
• Community pass: $15 (30 available)
• Free tickets for global Indigenous people (20 available)
🤎 PLUS: Full Conference Solidarity ticket holders ($110) get access to an exclusive follow-up group session on Nov 29.
Full day and solidarity tickets includes the recording so you can revisit the sessions anytime.
Do not just learn the history. Understand how it continues to shape the world we live in and what we can do about it.
👇 Comment DECOLONIZE for the ticket link or head to the link in our bio!
#decolonize #decolonization #religion #colonialism
05 Nov 2026
Colonialism is the single most transformative phenomenon in modern human history.
There is no aspect of our lives untouched by European colonialism, and the reality is it never truly ended. For many nations, independence was just a mirage. We are all navigating a world still defined by Western hegemony and American imperialism.
Despite being a defining historical force, colonialism remains one of the least taught and discussed topics in our society. Professor Lorenzo Veracini has written one of the only books examining colonialism as an overarching global history. That is exactly why I invited him to lead the foundational workshop at the Decolonizing Everything Conference.
In his session, we are laying the groundwork. You will build a deep understanding of colonial history so we can empower you to actively decolonize from it throughout the rest of the event.
🌍 NOVEMBER 21, 2026 | VIRTUAL
🎟️ TICKETS
• Single session: $39
• Full day pass: $74
• Community pass: $15 (30 available)
• Free tickets for global Indigenous people (20 available)
🤎 PLUS: Full Conference Solidarity ticket holders ($110) get access to an exclusive follow up group session on November 29.
Every ticket includes the recording so you can revisit the sessions anytime.
Do not just learn the history. Understand how it continues to shape the world we live in and what we can do about it.
Comment DECOLONIZE for the ticket link or head to the link in our bio!
#Decolonization #DecolonizingEverything
05 Nov 2026
Millie and I talk about how colonization hurt the European diaspora, and what we can do to reconnect with our ancestry in a respectful, non-appropriative and earth-centred way!
Link in bio for tickets to my upcoming workshop at the Decolonizing Everything conference 👀
I'm anthropologist and community organizer Dr. Hilary Agro, I quit academia to educate the public for free. Follow for more radical hope, and check out the Iink in my bio for a ton of resources!
If you appreciate my work, consider supporting me on Patreοn to keep my voice (and my kids) alive, join the group chat, and get access to patrons-only writing and videos, including my PhD dissertation which was embargoed by my university for being "too cool for the public to see" 🥰
Solidarity, we're all in this together. ❤️
#educational #thoughtful #ancestry #healing
03 Nov 2026
“If you say it’s polyamorous that means you’re able to love more than one person. You can’t tell a person, ‘I love you, number 2.’” Read @decolonizing.love’s full post at the link in bio
03 Nov 2026
Some argue that white people can’t decolonize from whiteness, they can only "uncolonize," and that decolonization is only for Indigenous folks. As an African Indigenous decolonizing activist from Kenya, I disagree.
Decolonization is for everyone. Nothing in this world hasn’t been touched by European colonization. Europeans and their descendants were also colonized and lost their indigeneity through various colonizations in Europe itself. Part of returning to their humanity is decolonizing and reconnecting to a pre-Empire way of being.
Decolonization is a labor I want to see taken up by more than just Indigenous folks. We are very much still in a colonial era. Countries like Kenya never truly got independence; neocolonialism thrives through puppet leadership and Western financial institutions. Decolonization is far more than landback. My mentor, the great Ngũgĩ wa Thiong’o, would say decolonizing the mind is the last step for true independence. Colonizers were adamant about colonizing the mind just as they colonized land and bodies—decolonization must address all of it.
This is why we are hosting the Decolonizing Everything Conference. We are sitting with the world's greatest thinkers, including:
• Prof. Lorenzo Veracini on anti-colonialism
• Joris Lechene: 'Decolonisation is not a metaphor... But Decoloniality can be'
• Dr. Hilary Agro: 'Decolonizing Whiteness: Ancestral Reconnection for the European Diaspora'
• Mordecai Ogada: 'Recolonization: Colonialism isn't returning; It never went away'
• Christian Ortiz: Decolonizing AI
• Plus sessions on Decolonizing Parenting
Catch our Live TODAY at 7 PM EDT with Dr. Hilary Agro!
🌍 NOVEMBER 21, 2026 | VIRTUAL
🤎 PLUS: Full Conference Solidarity ticket holders get an exclusive follow-up group session on Nov 29.
🎟️ TICKETS
Standard: $74
Community: $15 (30 available)
Free for global Indigenous people (20 available)
All tickets include event recordings.
Don't just learn the history. Understand how it shapes our world and what we can do about it.
Comment DECOLONIZE for the ticket link or head to the link in our bio!
#Decolonization #DecolonizingEverything #DecolonialAI #Decoloniality
03 Nov 2026
Decolonizing AI with @zacatecho
Join us at DECOLONIZING EVERYTHING: UNTAUGHT HISTORIES, a virtual conference exploring how colonialism shapes our societies, systems, relationships and even the way we think.
🌍 NOVEMBER 21, 2026 | VIRTUAL
Learn from our featured experts:
✊ Joris Lechene – Unpacking the often invisible ways colonial power operates in everyday life and society.
🌿 Dr. Hilary Agro – Exploring how white Europeans can uncolonize themselves and reconnect with pre-Christian European identities.
🤖 Christian Ortiz (@zacatecho) – Exploring Decolonial AI and how we can build technological futures beyond colonial frameworks.
📅 THE CONFERENCE PROGRAMME
Introduction: What is Colonization?
How to Decolonize
Decolonizing Parenting
Decolonizing AI
What is Recolonization?
Conference Debrief & Group Discussion
🤎 PLUS: Full Conference Solidarity ticket holders get access to an exclusive follow-up group session on November 29.
🎟️ TICKETS
Standard: $74
Community: $15 (30 available)
Free tickets for global Indigenous people (20 available).
Every ticket includes the recording, so you can revisit the sessions.
Don't just learn the history. Understand how it continues to shape the world we live in, and what we can do about it.
Comment DECOLONIZE for the ticket link or head to the link in our bio!
#Decolonization #DecolonizingEverything #DecolonialAI #Decoloniality
02 Nov 2026
Diaspora wars are based on internalized racism and premature death is the inevitable consequence of racism. Colonialism and white supremacy have done a number on people across the world. Generations have internalized the values of whiteness through colorism, measuring their own people by their proximity to whiteness and judging how educated, civilized or evolved someone is by how closely they resemble white people and white culture.
It is also a crabs-in-a-barrel mentality, reinforced by a system that rewards those who come closest to approximating whiteness while keeping everyone else competing for scraps of acceptance and recognition.
We need to recognize the game for what it is. These culture wars and manufactured divisions do not benefit any minority group. They serve to fracture communities that have far more in common than they have differences. We need to return our focus to what matters: solidarity across the diaspora, collective liberation, and class struggle. There is no hierarchy of Blackness. African, Caribbean and Black American people are all part of the Black diaspora. None of us is more or less Black than another.
And meanwhile, please be careful about where you send your children to school in pursuit of a supposedly better life. Migration and access to better opportunities do not automatically translate into a better childhood. Being placed in an environment where your child is a racial minority and subjected to hostility, bullying and racism can leave deep psychological scars. It doesn’t always end in death, but it almost always traumatizes.
🌍 Join us November 21 for the Decolonizing Everything Conference, where on of the workshops will be on Decolonizing Parengting! Virtual, with recordings included.
🎟️ Tickets: $74 standard, $15 community and free for global Indigenous people. Comment DECOLONIZE for the link or visit our bio!
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31 Oct 2026
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