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✨be the representation✨ — 💗 adoptee raised by 2 dads in nyc 💼 talent @smoothmedia.co 🤝 founder @goalhousenyc 📧 •••
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Recent posts
making this one felt special ✨
#adoptionjourney #dads #gayparents #divorce #fyp
20 Jan 2022
My thoughts on the saviourism narrative that dominates adoption and how it affects us adoptees. 📣
#adoptee #adopteevoices #adoptionjourney #jubilee
06 Jul 2023
they really hyped me up, tyyy 🥹☠️ #wordsofaffirmation
#nycvlog #vlog #dayinthelife
17 Aug 2022
lights off, candles lit
we’re saving our retinas because we’re flirtythree❤️🔥
18 Oct 2026
castles and croissants
31 Aug 2026
old man and the sea 🌊
06 Aug 2026
not pR0paGanDa, just a real life fam trying it’s best 🙂↕️🫶
05 Nov 2024
a season of change, and many things the same 💞
19 Oct 2025
odds??
22 Nov 2024
pov fulfilled a bucket list item I didn’t know I had. 🥲❤️
(oncoming unedited ramble…a forewarning!)
this past weekend, i was a speaker & host of a festival with themes very close to heart.
as an asian adoptee, growing up outside of asian culture and often peering in—in some ways, I think I had assumed that the spaces i belonged to were those designed specifically for asian adoptees. and guess what, i wasn’t wrong. i do belong to those spaces! they’re powerful, they’re needed and i love them.
BUT, something the past few days reminded me of, is that we are not limited to only certain types of spaces, communities, people.
we are and can be complicated, multifaceted, multidimensional.
hosting this festival, as a transracial asian adoptee, felt significant to me. it served to affirm that of which, of course, i’ve always known and will continue to know. that i’m asian, an adoptee, and proud. and always…so so much more!!
very grateful for the organizing team that entrusted me to do my part and most of all, for everyone else who came and made it all so easy and worthwhile. THAT. happened. wow. thanks so much yall.
finally, big big shoutout to @sonderingemily @vincentchanco @joycehasa @hevesh5 for making the speaker program as special as it was.
much love,
ben ❤️
5.18.24
Asian Creative Festival @asiancreativefoundation_
photo credit: @supa_dupa_dude
21 May 2024
“where you been?”
“i’ve ben in berlin” 🪩
18 May 2025
it’s a video 🤠
ft. @notmabes and fam in germany
26 May 2025
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